Job interviews can be a nerve-wracking experience and a struggle for most people. Wouldn't it be nice to head into an interview knowing that you can control the mood of the interview? Here are some tips and suggestions to not only make a great impression but to also help you lighten the mood of the interview.
First and foremost, smiling is the one thing that can make the most difference in an interview. Even if you aren't feeling happy, simply smiling can brighten your mood and your tone. Walk into the office and into the interview room with a smile on your face. It will start your interview off on the right foot. You will come across as confident and positive.
You should always focus on demonstrating a positive, friendly attitude when speaking to a potential employer, client or recruiter. Employers want to hire people that appear positive and someone who would likely get along with their team members and clients.
Find ways to incorporate humour into your interview, but use it sparingly. Don't head into an interview telling jokes but rather use real life examples. Balance your humor with statements and examples that paint the picture that you're a smart, dynamic, results-driven team player. Humour is part of your professional image so don't lay it on too strong and don't neglect your other professional attributes. Read your audience and follow your interviewer's lead. Pay attention to cues. How does the interviewer react to your humor? You don't want it to ever feel awkward or unprofessional. Practice your humor before the interview. Decide which stories you want to tell and practice it on your family or your friends, or even the neighbour. If they don't laugh then try a different approach. Remember, if it isn't natural, don't try to force it. There are plenty of other great ways to connect.
This video is a great 2-minute discussion on how to lighten the mood in a job interview. Darryle Brown gives some great simple tips to follow:
Relax -- if you're tense in an interview setting it can make the entire atmosphere tense as well. Be on time or early so you can concentrate on your thoughts and the things you want to say before the interview begins
Tell a personal story -- preferably something humorous. Something to help lighten the mood that the people within the interview setting will consider appropriate for that particular setting.
Have a sense of humor -- if you're tense it makes it impossible for you to really be able to deliver, relate or connect with the interviewers in the midst of the interview setting.
So remember, it's important to relax, tell a personal story that can connect with the interviewers and have a sense of humor so that you're able to win them over and lighten the mood in an interview setting.