Sometimes plans change!
It could be external factors such as economic conditions, regulatory change, market changes or competitive situations.
It could as easily be internal factors such as company changes, management changes, new better opportunities arising or staff changes.
Whatever the cause, it is likely to have a big impact on you.
You developed a plan, you were working your plan, you have had some success and now the plan needs to change.
It is quite likely you will experience the some level of denial, anger, bargaining, depression and hopefully acceptance!
Obviously the goal is to get to acceptance as fast and painlessly as possible!
“Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t.”
So what do you do…
You have to get to acceptance as soon as possible.
Be kind to yourself. Any large change can feel tough initially, even if the change is ultimately for the good.
Vent … but Avoid Confrontation. Talk about it to your trusted advisers, family and friends. Let some of the emotion go so that you can move on to what comes next.
Self talk. Change brings opportunity, good lessons will have been learned along the path and anything you achieved, and experience gained, can be harnessed for the future. Whether the change is due to personal failure, situation change or other factors there is now a new opportunity to pursue.
Understand the change. Listen, ask questions, REALLY understand and under no circumstances be the “naysayer”, sometimes called the “devil’s advocate”. At this stage let other people do that.
Understand how you can contribute to the change. How can you be involved? What will you learn? How will you be viewed? What can you do to maximize the situation?
Begin the planning process again. If it is your project then it is a project plan. If it is someone else’s project that you are a part of, then bring value to them.
Give the new plan a chance. Don’t make hasty decisions. Do not be emotional. Focus on the positives and plan for success.
Re-evaluate. Once things have settled down and execution against the new plan is happening, take stock of the situation. In the cold light of day are you on board with the new plan? Can this work for you? Can you bring value? Will you learn?
Commit. Whatever you decide to do, do it well!
“They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself.”
Kevin Dee is the founder of Eagle (a Professional Staffing Company)
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I write these articles with the intent of sharing MY experience and knowledge gained during MY life journey. From the 16 year old joining the Royal Navy, through many incarnations, to the grey haired guy who built a business. If you find a nugget here, then I am happy. If the message offends you then I apologise, that was never my intent. I know and recognize there are many people and groups who have a far bigger challenge than I have had and I only wish you well.